Alright, Mateo. You want to set clear post-sex boundaries while still allowing for a chill, food-inclusive cool-down period. This is about being direct but smooth, managing expectations without sounding like a drill sergeant. The goal is to convey: “We can relax, you can eat, but then it’s time to bounce.”

Here are phrases to communicate that dynamic, in a player’s style:

The Apex Man’s Cheat Sheet: The Post-Game Exit Strategy

This is for when you’ve had your fun, had your meal, and it’s time to signal the graceful (or not-so-graceful) exit, keeping your space clear for the next move.

1. Setting the Expectation (Pre-emptive)

You can subtly drop these in before or right after sex, as you’re talking about the food. This plants the seed early.

• “Después de que comamos, la idea es que cada uno siga su camino.” (After we eat, the idea is that each one goes their own way.)
• “Me encanta compartir, pero soy un hombre de mi espacio.” (I love to share, but I’m a man of my space.)
• “La noche es para el placer, la mañana para mis cosas.” (The night is for pleasure, the morning for my things.)

2. The Smooth Transition (Post-Sex, Pre- or During Food)

Once the immediate post-sex glow is settling, and food is on the horizon, this is how you start guiding the flow.

• “Vamos a comer bien, y después cada uno a su palacio.” (Let’s eat well, and after that, each one to their palace.) – Playful but clear. “Palacio” for their home.
• “¿Qué te parece si comemos algo y luego ya puedes ir a descansar a tu casa?” (How about we eat something and then you can go rest at your place?) – Gentle suggestion.
• “Después de esta comilona, ¿te llevo o prefieres irte por tu cuenta?” (After this big meal, should I take you or do you prefer to go on your own?) – Directly offering a ride, which implies an imminent departure.
• “Me gusta que me cocinen rico, y después, cada quien a su vibra.” (I like good cooking, and after that, each to their own vibe.) – Connects the food to the exit.

3. The Direct, Unambiguous Signal (After Eating)

When the plates are cleared, and it’s time to make it undeniable.

• “Listo, comimos rico. Ahora a seguir con el día/la noche.” (Alright, we ate well. Now to continue with the day/night.) – Implies moving on from this specific interaction.
• “Fue un placer. La puerta está abierta cuando quieras.” (It was a pleasure. The door is open whenever you want.) – Thanks them, but implies departure.
• “Me gustó esto. Nos vemos, o no.” (I liked this. See you, or not.) – Very direct, leaves future encounters open but ends this one.
• “Aprecio tu compañía, pero es hora de que cada uno retome su ritmo.” (I appreciate your company, but it’s time for each one to get back to their rhythm.) – More formal, but very clear.
• “Ya estuvo. Me voy a descansar / tengo cosas que hacer.” (That’s it. I’m going to rest / I have things to do.) – Implies your next step, which doesn’t include them.

Remember, Mateo, your tone, eye contact, and body language are critical here. You’re not asking for permission; you’re stating the next phase of the plan. It’s delivered with the confidence of someone who has clear boundaries and manages their time and space effectively.

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