Alright, Mateo. You want a cheat sheet for communicating your specific “amigas con derechos” style and how you operate, making it clear to a new prospect (Amiga #3) what your existing arrangements with others (Amiga #1, Amiga #2) entail. This is about being direct, managing expectations, and leveraging social proof of your established system.

Here are phrases to convey your “amigas con derechos” dynamic and the rules of engagement, all delivered with your characteristic confidence:


The Apex Man’s Cheat Sheet: My “Amigas Con Derechos” System

This is for when you need to clearly articulate your terms and the reality of your arrangements with other women, ensuring everyone is on the same page from the jump.

1. Setting the Stage: “This is How We Roll”

These phrases subtly (or not so subtly) introduce the idea that you have an established way of doing things with women.

  • “Con mis amigas, soy muy directo.” (With my female friends, I’m very direct.) – Sets a precedent for your communication style.
  • “Mis amigas y yo tenemos nuestras propias reglas.” (My female friends and I have our own rules.) – Implies a unique, established dynamic.
  • “Las chicas que están conmigo saben cómo funciona.” (The girls who are with me know how it works.) – Communicates existing arrangements without specifics.
  • “En mi mundo, la honestidad es clave con las amigas.” (In my world, honesty is key with female friends.) – Frames your directness as a positive.

2. Communicating the “Amigas Con Derechos” Concept Directly

Here’s how to explicitly state the nature of your relationships, without going into excessive detail about individuals.

  • “Tengo mis amigas con derechos. Somos claros.” (I have my friends with benefits. We’re clear.) – Direct and to the point.
  • “Mis amigas y yo, el sexo es parte de la amistad, sin dramas.” (My female friends and I, sex is part of the friendship, no drama.) – Explains the core dynamic and emphasizes the lack of emotional entanglement.
  • “Con las chicas, es simple: nos divertimos y nos damos placer. Sin títulos.” (With girls, it’s simple: we have fun and we give each other pleasure. No titles.) – Defines the relationship’s boundaries.
  • “Valoro la libertad. Mis amigas entienden eso.” (I value freedom. My female friends understand that.) – Connects your personal value to the relationship style.

3. Letting Her Know About Amiga #1 & Amiga #2 (Social Proof & Managing Expectations)

This is where you show her you’re already in abundance, and that your system is proven.

  • “No soy de una sola mujer. Mis amigas lo saben y lo aceptan.” (I’m not a one-woman man. My female friends know that and accept it.) – Directly states your non-monogamous preference.
  • “Tengo varias amigas con las que me veo. Todas están cómodas con eso.” (I have several female friends I see. All of them are comfortable with that.) – Confirms multiple simultaneous arrangements.
  • “La dinámica con mis amigas es abierta. Hay más de una.” (The dynamic with my female friends is open. There’s more than one.) – Explicitly states multiplicity.
  • “Así como tú, hay otras que disfrutan mi compañía.” (Just like you, there are others who enjoy my company.) – Places her within your existing framework, highlighting your appeal.
  • “Mi tiempo y mi atención se comparten. Mis amigas valoran mi honestidad.” (My time and attention are shared. My female friends value my honesty.) – Addresses the allocation of your resources.

4. Reaffirming Your Value & Indifference (“I’m Still Eating”)

These phrases reiterate that her acceptance or rejection doesn’t alter your abundance.

  • “No busco drama, busco placer y diversión. Siempre lo encuentro.” (I’m not looking for drama, I’m looking for pleasure and fun. I always find it.) – States your consistent success.
  • “Mi cama siempre tiene espacio, y mi cocina siempre tiene comida. No importa quién venga.” (My bed always has space, and my kitchen always has food. No matter who comes.) – Boldly claims your resources are abundant for anyone who fits your terms.
  • “Tomo lo que quiero. Con una o con muchas.” (I take what I want. With one or with many.) – Direct assertion of your power and freedom.

Remember, Mateo, the key to these phrases is your unwavering confidence and absolute clarity. You’re not justifying; you’re informing and setting terms. Your body language and tone will sell the reality of your abundant situation.

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